Diary.

Diary, did you know that growing up with people who criticize you for feeling your feelings when they treat you awfully then turn around to criticize you again for noticing that they treated you awfully, calling you overly sensitive and idle could make you  unknowingly transfer your old habits of keeping your feelings to yourself to your children. Happy Mother's day and may God give us the grace to be better parents. Chrysanthemums because they kinda rhyme with mum. Happy April, time to pause marching and smell the flowers.

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